IWSG Day: Life Among the Butterflies

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Alex Blajan

The question for November 7th: How has your creativity in life evolved since you began writing?

This is a bit of a loaded question, but okay. I’m going to take a leap of faith and say; authors in general live a life stuffed full of imaginings. I feel like this is true of all of us. We slip easily into daydreams. We hear voices and create conflicts and see scenes in our heads. We’re stereotyped as being absent-minded for a good reason. We chase ideas, trying to transfigure them from smoke to solid. Possibilities, and ‘what-ifs’ lead us so strongly that it’s sometimes difficult to narrow the focus onto real things like “chores” and “bill due-by” and “grocery shopping for dinner tonight”.

That’s not just me, right? Please say it’s not just me.

I didn’t start actively trying to be a writer until 2016, when I buckled down, started researching authoring to within an inch of its life, and tried submitting some of my scribbles. But I’d been thinking up stories and writing them down since I was young. The urge to create wasn’t new, only the firm steps I took towards it.

For some strange reason I thought actively trying to wrestle these daydreams into the approved form with proper grammar and plot and everything, would make them, I dunno, less overwhelming. Show them who is the boss here, type of thing.

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HA. HAHA. I was a naive small summer child, because instead they’ve become more. Turns out, actively encouraging the creativity with ‘what-ifs’ makes the damn thing insatiable. Rather than pinning the daydreaming down neatly to approved writing time, it now happens all the time.

An argument in a coffee store tempts me to follow the participants around, taking notes. She said what? And then you—oh. Oooh. That’s perfect for my characters. I love it. Keep going. Random passerby are now fair game for character quirks, especially that guy at the grocery store who walks with his belly out further than his feet and his chin out even further than that. My showers are no longer private, because I’m fleshing out scenes and dialogue and entire casts are sharing the steam with me. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve now thought of something funny right as I’m drifting off to sleep and I snort laugh myself awake and find a pen (my husband is not as scared by this as you might think, I’ve always been a little odd). Reading someone else’s work now makes me think Oh that’s good, but I’d do it like this…

It’s like being surrounded by a constant cloud of butterflies. Story ideas and dialogue and little splats of inspiration hitting like an unexpected seagull at the beach. They’re pretty and shiny, but pervasive, and sometimes I wish they’d go away.

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YES. So much distracted.

So I guess the answer to the November 7th question is, I have turned my creativity into a monster. I sewed all the bits together, shoved in a brain, attached electricity at the bolts, and now I’m watching my creation rampage towards the village with a slightly distracted smile.




19 thoughts on “IWSG Day: Life Among the Butterflies

  1. It’s not just you 🙂 I can relate to a life full of imaginings. I slip so easily into daydreams, and my partner has taken to telling me to stop watching Netflix in my head and pay attention!

    1. That’s a really good way to put it. It is like having Netflix running, all the time!

  2. LOL ~ It’s not just you! And I’m glad to know it’s not just me. Often what’s going on in my head is way more real than what’s going on around me. Happy writing! Nurture that cloud of butterflies!

  3. True true true! I love this post. lol I never thought of not being alone in the shower anymore. hahaha We’re always thinking about characters and situations, aren’t we!!

    1. We are! Let’s go ahead and just say we’re passionate about writing the best story possible. haha.

  4. Oh, darlin’–we are sisters of the heart. Or of the distracted writerly brain. Your excellent post made me giggle. I also bolt up in the night to scribble fleeting ideas, and I do a lot of talking to characters in the shower–or rather, they talk to me
    Wishing you happy writing in November.

    1. It is so comforting to hear it’s not just me! Thank you. Distracted writer brain is sometimes the worst. Sometimes the best, too.

  5. As you, I prefer not to focus on “real things.” What flows from imagination is much more interesting. If only I could harness it more effectively!

    1. That’s the secret! Which I have yet to learn, haha. There must be a way, but I have this sinking feeling it’s different for every writer.

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